Thursday, April 22, 2010

Women--Angels or Demons????

While writing the title...i just got first spelling mistake in writing the word 'women'...i guess women have already begun to curse me up for this post...;)

Anywz...I am reading a book these days "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus"...and due to some mystic incidents in last few weeks...caught my attention to write up this post....

Firstly to tickle your funny bone a bit...let me share these incidents...Last October..i was travelling by train..and i had a newly wed sardar sardarni couple as my neighbours(i was quite lucky...)...when the breakfast was served..sardar ji took sauce and sardarni held the breadpiece...and sardar ji started making heart shape designs over the bread...after sometime he started applying nail-polish to her..when we were about to arrive chandigarh, sardarni went to restroom..changed into a suit..applied a sindoor to look traditional in front of her parents-in-law..now this girl is supportive to her husband...and cares for the family as well as for her...

Same incident happened again last week..but characters(except me..) and story got changed a bit...there were no romantic acts here..the new bride had just laid her head on guy's shoulders to seek some romantic comforts...but suddenly she started complaining about guy's relatives,his family and came in a Jhansi ki Rani mode...Guy..was just doing hmmm,yes,hmm..no options left other then to face that fighting lady's menace...i m sure he would be regretting and thinking how he will live with this crying baby now...for whole life...now this girl is surely uncaring about her family....uncaring for her husband...and a true headache for anyone.....


Women-Angels or Demons...?? Well..this riddle can never be solved...Past historians, Psychologists, Scientists..every sort of human occupation is confused about this riddle..Its solution always comes temporarily like.....when she is a wife...angel or demon-confusion here.....sister...again confusion...girlfriend...confusion again.....but two relations will never give confusion...at least to me..that are...daughter and mother.....Other relations may always need some correction but these two are too pure...


Perhaps..we may never live without women(no one wants to be a gay here..right)...we are always dependent on her in these life roles as well as in our daily life..nothing eye-catching can be created without them....have you seen any adv. without women?? They are the ones to whom we try to give our max. care and they deserve this..our care is quite less as compared to what the amount they give to us...but only..if they are angels...When they come in there demon..complaining mode...it will be better to be free from them..for a while...let me think what they are behaving and then check them again..if still have't changed..better help them out..

Chaos between Angel or Demon thing may never end..but she is the doctor,she is the judge, she is the mother, she is ma durga, she is sonia gandhi...she is my sister..she is your girlfriend..she is my aunt..she is your neighbor...There demon part is always .00001 % of the whole thing...so respecting and taking care of her rest major part is the soulful duty of we-men structures...so stop thinking over this riddle and spend this good time of planning something good for your 'her'...


All Women say Tathstu to me now..plzzzzz;)

2 comments:

deepti gaur said...

AWESOME shivu..i love this post of urs..LOVELY =) nicely put up..and its not offensive either :) good goin :D

Sharoon Padmanabhan said...

Angel or Demon.... she's der fr d taking..... Well Said in all...